Do people have relationship talks? Do men really tell you that they are 'exclusive' or 'monogamous'? Or do they show you? Are you supposed to know if they have feelings for you by their actions?
And they certainly aren't supposed to talk about them.
At least, that's the way it is in the western world.
Right now, I'm in a situation where I don't know if it's 'exclusive' or 'monogamous.'
I don't know how she feels about these things. Hell, we've only been on one date.
So it's 'exclusive' and 'monogamous' simply because I barely have enough time for her, let alone anyone else.
So do I spend my time with her talking about 'exlusivity' and 'monogamy,' when we barely see each other as it is? The way things are going, it's going to be a month in between dates, just because that's how our schedules are.
So there's every chance that I'll be 'with' her in some form or other for three or four months, but we'll have only seen each other a handful of times. Is this by default an 'exclusive' relationship?
I thought that when I got older I'd have a better handle on this stuff.
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Men aren't supposed to have feelings.
And they certainly aren't supposed to talk about them.
At least, that's the way it is in the western world.
Right now, I'm in a situation where I don't know if it's 'exclusive' or 'monogamous.'
I don't know how she feels about these things. Hell, we've only been on one date.
So it's 'exclusive' and 'monogamous' simply because I barely have enough time for her, let alone anyone else.
So do I spend my time with her talking about 'exlusivity' and 'monogamy,' when we barely see each other as it is? The way things are going, it's going to be a month in between dates, just because that's how our schedules are.
So there's every chance that I'll be 'with' her in some form or other for three or four months, but we'll have only seen each other a handful of times. Is this by default an 'exclusive' relationship?
I thought that when I got older I'd have a better handle on this stuff.
Yeharr
So can we all just agree that we are confused?
confused. yes, confused.
oh god i have no idea that's for sure.
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