7/27/06

Is the first person to say "I love you."
the loser?

Why does it feel that way?

Why does it feel like you always lose when you fall in love?

5 comments:

Balloon Pirate said...

First I think you better get a very good, very mature definition of what love is.

Yeharr

Dark Lady said...

Well I have said that I want to know what love is.
I just want to KNOW not be told or shown I want to feel it with in me and just know.

Balloon Pirate said...

I'm not sure it works that way.

If you can't quantify what love is, perhaps you could narrow it down.

What is love NOT?

Hint: If it makes you feel like shit, keeps you up nights, and prevents you from being happy, I'm guessing it ain't love.

Yeharr

Dark Lady said...

Of course!
That makes sense and right now it is much easier for me to know what love is not.

Thank you Balloon Pirate.

ell said...

is the first person to say i love you the loser? i think it's a no win situation. if you say if first, and they say it back, you wonder if they're just saying it because you said it. and if they don't say it back, then it's like offering someone your hand for a handshake, and you're left hanging. they say that's the biggest insult there is.

even at this stage in my life, i sometimes wonder if i really know what love is. ;(